Okay, so i know i said about a month ago i finally ended it with the side project???? well i did but i also got wrapped up in it AGAIN. im like quagmeyer from family guy, if she is hot, i cant control myself. well this girl is now giving me an ultimatum because she wants to settle down with me and what not. but the thing is, is that im married(see the problem) but it is so hard for me to end this becuase i got in deep with her and dont want to hurt her, but i cant stand the fact of someone else being with her. and i know what the bible says about breaking marriages and what not, but i ask you, isnt it better to do it now when no kids are involved??? its that this side girl is everything i ever wanted even more than my wife was when we started. she is hot, works out like crazy, buys me shit, wants to do anything i want, has hot friends(just a perk) and her mom is a knockout, and my wife's mom, lets hope my wife doesnt go that route. now im the type of guy that i hate to break either of their worlds, which is going to happen. and i try to picture me leaving my wife, and it seems like i just wouldnt want to go through the hassle and have her be hurt. i just hate to know that im losing this great girl who could in fact be the one, because i dont want to hurt someones' feelings. and for the ones who ask, i have talked with my wife about doing more things for me or whatever, but to no avail. and she has gotten bigger and does nothing about it and is content. and i notice it alot, and for a guy who is use to hotties, its kind of depressing. i aint got much time to decide and it really really sucks. prayers would be helpful.