- Jul 1, 2013
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I rarely make actual posts I prefer to read and learn before I speak up, but with that said I couldn't help but make this thread.
I finalized my divorce back in November and have been paying alimony type payments since then. I have roughly two more months of alimony and assorted bs payments left before I will finally be able to say that part of my life is completely over. With that being said I will finally be able to fully invest in my body and bring myself to a level that I am comfortable with. I know that I shouldn't be this excited but for me it is a dream come true. I can invest in my kids and their educations as well as myself without feeling like I am being selfish or cheating someone somehow. Having that kind of weight removed is going to be such a relief that I can't help but be excited for the future.
My question to those of y'all that are divorced is this, once all was said and done did any of y'all feel this excited to start over?
I finalized my divorce back in November and have been paying alimony type payments since then. I have roughly two more months of alimony and assorted bs payments left before I will finally be able to say that part of my life is completely over. With that being said I will finally be able to fully invest in my body and bring myself to a level that I am comfortable with. I know that I shouldn't be this excited but for me it is a dream come true. I can invest in my kids and their educations as well as myself without feeling like I am being selfish or cheating someone somehow. Having that kind of weight removed is going to be such a relief that I can't help but be excited for the future.
My question to those of y'all that are divorced is this, once all was said and done did any of y'all feel this excited to start over?