well wolfy, this is the way i see it, as you stated, we all "see" it a different way. Its just carnal feelings, as in thats why guys who date pamela anderson,carmen electra and the likes of heather locklear, still cheat on them or do something stupid. because it becomes routine, and i know there are things to do to "spice" it up. Sex and looks are a huge reason for divorce. Many guys fuck up a relationship with a hot or good looking girl for a piece of drunken ass or just ass. and they know there is a chance to get caught and its done anyways.
Dragon- i hear ya, it sucks to be in the position, because u just forgot whats right and wrong or choose to ignore it.
Its just hard to believe that a guy can be happily married for years and have kids and a great house, job,life, etc. and have a chance to bang this hottie and noone know. its hard to say that any guy would say no. even if there is a slight chance to get caught he would, and when you add booze the chances are higher that he would.
Just my two cents..