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Jealous women. The most untrustworthy?

frizzlefry

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So I the girl im with at the moment has been really great. She works two jobs till midnight, comes over to iron my clothes, fix me dinner and have dirty unholy sex with me. Then gets up at 7 in the morning to do it all over again. Sounds great right? Ohh it is. She is also insanely jealous. I mean if one of my buddies sends me a pic of some ass he found on the net (thanks IB) she gets really pissed. If i so much as smile at another woman she pouts and threatens to cut my dick off.

So heres the thing. Jealous women, are they jealous because they think you are doing what they are doing? Ive had that experince in the past. Curious to see what others experiences have been.
 

Daniel11

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You do not see in others what does not first exist in yourself.

She may be jealous because of previous relationship (ie conditioned fear), she would do it herself, or she is/did do it her self.
 

Phoe2006

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I think it has all to do with her past relationships as well as your own past relationships. So if I were you I wouldn't talk about any past relationships with her and if you already did and cheated on ur past gf's etc that's probably where a lot of the jealousy is coming from.
 

frizzlefry

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You do not see in others what does not first exist in yourself.

She may be jealous because of previous relationship (ie conditioned fear), she would do it herself, or she is/did do it her self.

Yes very well said.
 

frizzlefry

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I think it has all to do with her past relationships as well as your own past relationships. So if I were you I wouldn't talk about any past relationships with her and if you already did and cheated on ur past gf's etc that's probably where a lot of the jealousy is coming from.

We really have not talked much about the past, hers or mine. Come to think of it since her english isnt great and my spanish isnt much better, our conversations usually go something like this.
"You no hungry?"
"Yes me hungry."
"When you finish work?"
"Me finish now"

Im wondering if its a cultural thing. But my past experiences make me very leary of jealous women.
 

srd1

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She may have some self esteem issues going on usually least in my experience the most non jealous people are ones with a higher self esteem. For some reason no matter how sexy or pretty a woman is if she doesnt see it she will think you dont either and theres where you end up with the jealousy issue.
 

frizzlefry

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She may have some self esteem issues going on usually least in my experience the most non jealous people are ones with a higher self esteem. For some reason no matter how sexy or pretty a woman is if she doesnt see it she will think you dont either and theres where you end up with the jealousy issue.

Yup. She does have a self esteem issue.
 

frizzlefry

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Theres the problem brother make her feel good about herself (easier said than done believe me) and the jealousy thing will fade away.

Yea im pretty good about that. I think its the combination of culture, insecurities, and past experiences that are are contributing to this. I guess my issue really isnt the jealousy itself. Its what it may potentially represent.
 

myosaurus

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never get in the car with her when she's hungry. she may tell the cops you have weed in the seat.:D
 

bigpoppie

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All of this is good advice, however at this point in both your lives you are not compatable. The energy spent on the immaturity issues at hand would be better utilized elsewhere. In the immortal words of Andy Dufrane..."it comes down to one simple choice. get busy living, or get busy dying."
 

MattG

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Theres the problem brother make her feel good about herself (easier said than done believe me) and the jealousy thing will fade away.

Yeah, takes time too. All my longer relationships thats how it goes. The beginnings great then theres that "shits gettin serious" crap, when you both wonder if you really trust each other or not. Usually takes a couple years before that goes away, in my experience anyhow
 

amateurmale

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So I the girl im with at the moment has been really great. She works two jobs till midnight, comes over to iron my clothes, fix me dinner and have dirty unholy sex with me. Then gets up at 7 in the morning to do it all over again. Sounds great right? Ohh it is. She is also insanely jealous. I mean if one of my buddies sends me a pic of some ass he found on the net (thanks IB) she gets really pissed. If i so much as smile at another woman she pouts and threatens to cut my dick off.

So heres the thing. Jealous women, are they jealous because they think you are doing what they are doing? Ive had that experince in the past. Curious to see what others experiences have been.


The real question is…..where are my booty pics IB?!?!?!?! :mad::mad::mad:


To the OP, ya gotta bone the paranoia outta her. Thats all.