I've posted a few times here regarding issues with the women I've dated. Most of the time I've been guilty of over thinking things and making the situation worse. So here is a situation I've ran into with a new girl.
Been together about 6 months, things are going really well, but I found out that about 3 months into the relationship she went and had lunch with a "guy friend" she had previously slept with. My biggest issue with this is that she purposely kept it from me. When I asked her why, she doesn't really have an answer. Apparently they had been friends for several years. He's the goofy nerdy guy that has girls for friends because he's not too popular with the guys, they make fun of him, hes rat her fat, oit of shape etc.. Their one night together was a year ago when both were drinking and sh*t just happened, since then nothing has happened. I almost feel sorry for him. However, it's nothing personal against him. My concern is, would this be something to raise concern? She's winced ceased communication with him and changed her cell number. She said that we are priority and she made a mistake. My question is if she cared for me, why do something or follow through with something that would hurt my feelings. Had she been upfront about the lunch meeting, I moat likely wouldn't have had any issues. The fact it was hidden from me, makes me feel very uneasy.
So I'm looking for some insight, direction.
Been together about 6 months, things are going really well, but I found out that about 3 months into the relationship she went and had lunch with a "guy friend" she had previously slept with. My biggest issue with this is that she purposely kept it from me. When I asked her why, she doesn't really have an answer. Apparently they had been friends for several years. He's the goofy nerdy guy that has girls for friends because he's not too popular with the guys, they make fun of him, hes rat her fat, oit of shape etc.. Their one night together was a year ago when both were drinking and sh*t just happened, since then nothing has happened. I almost feel sorry for him. However, it's nothing personal against him. My concern is, would this be something to raise concern? She's winced ceased communication with him and changed her cell number. She said that we are priority and she made a mistake. My question is if she cared for me, why do something or follow through with something that would hurt my feelings. Had she been upfront about the lunch meeting, I moat likely wouldn't have had any issues. The fact it was hidden from me, makes me feel very uneasy.
So I'm looking for some insight, direction.
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