wolfyEVH said:
even if you have a normal sperm count and you've never cycled, its still takes time to get a girl pregnant........it seems as though the fastest times you get her pregnant are the times you're not wanting/expecting it. but when you actually try, it takes a bit!!
Thanks for the PM Blackbird. Thought I would post a few thoughts here, as others may have some further interest and input too.
First, I'd have to agree with Wolfy....getting pregnant takes a while, unless you really don't want it!
- Okay, so I know you know this, but I'll state it anyways. You can only get a woman pregnant for a couple of days during the ovulation phase at mid-cycle each month. You can practice all you want, but there's a fairly small window of opportunity each month.
- Many, many causes of not being able to get pregnant. Remember, it takes two also...ie. it may well have nothing to do with your end of the deal. If your wife is also a bodybuilder or athlete (especially thin endurance athletes), she may not even have regular menstrual cycles or ovulate at all. There may be mechanical limitations to getting the sperm to the egg....blocked fallopian tubes from prior inflammation (gonorrhea, surgery, etc.) that doesn't get the egg into shooting range. The egg may get fertilized, but doesn't implant in the uterus and begin to grow and you never even knew you were pregnant. Many spontaneous abortions occur very early in pregnancy and you never knew you were pregnant.
Your end of the deal.....sperm count is only one part. Timing, placement, etc are all to be considered. If you are 3 mo out from cycle and pct, you're probably OK unless you have done irreversible damage (unlikely) from years of cycles.
- Is your testicular size back to normal?
- Is your sex drive back to normal?
- If so, fairly likely that things are workin'
- Before getting on more clomid or considering something like HCG to get you nuts working, I'd just get a sperm count done and see if that's the issue. You shouldn't have to wait to get that done, it's easy to do and at least rules that out. Nothin' like whipping up a batch into a beaker for the gals at the lab!
- As for your question about using clomid for more than 30 days......I just don't know. Most things I've read say not to. It's not really used that way medically, so your best resources are probably from people on forums like this that have used it in higher doses and longer periods of time than anything you'll find in a textbook or on medline. More importantly though, as I said above, your sperm count may very well not be the problem anyways and there would be no point to subjecting yourself to more clomid unnecessarily.
- If your testicular size is still quite small, no sex drive, clomid already done, I'd consider some HCG...maybe a couple thousand iu once per week for a couple doses to get the boys workin'. Take some nolva with it though, so the increased estro. with testicular stimulation doesn't just shut you right back down again.
Hope that helps.
Stealth.